Ghanaian female musician, Sista Afia has made a frank declaration about a disloyalty she experienced from a past lover, shedding light on a side of her life that many were not aware of.

In an interview, Sista Afia opened up about how this disloyalty influenced her frame of reference on relationships.

Sista Afia admitted that she had a strong desire to take to her heart the excitement of youth and explore love to its fullest, which led her to enter into a relationship with the wrong person, unaware of the forthcoming heartbreak that awaited her.

According to her, the first warning sign came when she discovered that her partner had fathered a child with another woman, however, she was blinded by love and chose to accept the situation and continue the relationship.

The compressing blast came when she discovered that her lover had actually married another woman while they were still together and this disclosure drained her belief in the existence of unconditional love that left her extremely hurt.

She said:

“At a point, I let go, and I became happy because sometimes when a partner harbors certain negative thoughts and feelings, God reveals them to you early.

“So I felt relieved like blessed. It became a learning point for me for any future relationship. I tell any potential partner what I’ve gone through so they don’t repeat such actions”.
Sista Afia

The musician expressed her shock and disappointment as she never expected her long-term partner to act heartlessly, however, she chose not to disclose all the details of her trauma.

She added that the experience has become a valuable lesson in love and relationships and it has not been in vain.

She shared her newfound wisdom, emphasizing:

“Having learned the hard way, I now understand that having fewer expectations can lead to fewer disappointments”.
Sista Afia

She stated she realized that sometimes God intervenes and reveals the negative intentions of a partner early and this realization has brought her a lot of sense of relief and blessings.

Sista Afia’s post sparks reactions

The Ghanaian musician, Sista Afia sparked curiosity and speculation among her fans and social media users after she declared in a recent Facebook post that she is done with Ghanaian men.

The confusing message left her viewers and fans wondering about the reasons behind her decision and whether she has experienced a broken heart or faced other undisclosed information.

Sista Afia took to her official Facebook page to share her feeling, leaving her followers confused and wanting to know more about her post.

Immediately, the attracted attention of followers was set on fire with discussions in her comment section.